Words
are not a sufficient medium with which to express my appreciation for the tango
band known as Qtango. How can I possibly convey to you, the reader, what I feel
without using my hands, without yelling at the top of my lungs or jumping up
and down or spinning in circles?
I will
try.
On
Sunday, I came to Albuquerque with a specific purpose in mind: to expose my
girlfriend to something very wonderful. For months
we have been attending tango workshops and practicas but I knew full well such
endeavors, while worthy, do not capture the emotion or the transformational experience of tango.
Two people simply moving to the rhythm of tango music are
dancing tango but tango is something much more than that. I racked my brain to find a way to convey my perceptions of this dance to my partner until I arrived at the answer: Qtango.
At the milonga a DJ warmed up the crowd before the band
performed. I took the opportunity to try a new step with my partner. My attempts were nearly successful and I felt confident I could
succeed if properly inspired.
Suitable
motivation arrived as if on cue, or should I say ‘Q’, as in Qtango? With Erskine
Maytorena on bandoneon, Jeremy Sment on double bass and Olga Home on violin, the
band took the stage and began to play.
The
sharp notes of Olga's violin moved me to reach for the stars. As we joined in the tango embrace I looked
into my partner’s eyes and was drawn into her. I could feel her confidence in
me as she met my gaze. I was now more than a man, I was ‘us’. We were joined together
as one entity and something more. We were part of the music, an extension of
it. I willed the follower to move her left foot backward and it moved. Time
slowed down to the speed of surreal. I waited for the next note to strike
before moving my right foot forward and we repeated this pattern until the illusion was complete.
It was a
new movement for me, for us. We were cohorts in the creation of something
original.
My
elation shot towards the ceiling accompanied by my copilot as we flew along the
notes and moved around the dance floor in total harmony. I was happy. She
took my joy and returned it with interest. We were one with each other and with
the melody. The musicians played and we reacted. We moved without choreography,
not knowing the next step until the chord had been released from the violin,
bandoneon or bass. We were lost in the song until it ended and found
ourselves unable to believe the euphoria, our minds reeling as the bond between
us dissipated.
For such
a union to occur between my girlfriend and I could be a testament to our
relationship and our particular chemistry. Dancing that night with other tangueras I made
equally incredible connections and succeeded bravely in many movements I had
previously executed with apprehension.
The only explanation for this is Qtango.
To merely
say they are good musicians is an insult in my humble opinion. They are the
best tango band ever….period! Never has a violin touched me as Olga’s did. To
hear Erskine sing familiar tango ballads made me realize how offensive were similar
attempts by other balladeers.
Thank
you, Qtango, for helping me to find the tango experience I had been missing since I
arrived in New Mexico, ten months ago. The
true meaning of tango had escaped me. Now I remember what that is: to make an
intimate connection with your partner, to become one with a song, to be an
extension of the music and the footsteps of the melody so that it can move
across the dance floor.
Qtango does
much more than play tango music with sublime perfection, it sets the music
free!
For more info on this band go to their website: www.qtango.com
Note: Check out my new book on Amazon: Fear of Intimacy and the Tango Cure.
Note: For an in-depth look into the mind of the Kayak Hombre, read his book, available on Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/River-Tango-perri-iezzoni/dp/1453865527/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1369366756&sr=1-1&keywords=River+tango
Note: Check out my new book on Amazon: Fear of Intimacy and the Tango Cure.
Note: For an in-depth look into the mind of the Kayak Hombre, read his book, available on Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/River-Tango-perri-iezzoni/dp/1453865527/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1369366756&sr=1-1&keywords=River+tango
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