While I
was dancing with a beautiful tanguera this past weekend, it occurred to me that
the ear is an incredibly direct path to our pleasure centers. Think about it;
where would your orgasm be without an audible assist? Where would the fun be in
dancing tango without the music?
As we
are well aware, not all sounds are stimulating, nor is all tango music
appealing to all dancers. Only certain songs do it for certain dancers.
As with
tango melodies, not every compliment works with every woman. Knowing what to
say so that it arrives in her brain as pleasurable is a purely instinctual
talent.
If we
adhere to the codigo de silencio, we
give ourselves a chance to experience a myriad of other erotic sounds happening
within the tango embrace: breathing, humming, involuntary guttural exclamations
of delight, toe tapping, etc.
When
someone is relaxed, the sound of their breathing is much different from a
person in any other physical state. It
is a compliment to your partner.
It says,
“I am comfortable being with you.”
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